Heal Yourself…?
“You are your own best healer.” Says the author. The claim is that the existing health structures are not working, and that the traditional model of mental healthcare is limited. How so? Based on her own private practice as a therapist, people are still frustrated, still taking medication, and still feeling stuck. And as she points out, western medicine treats the mind and body as separate entities, while the mind, body and soul are all connected.
The solution? The author created what she calls “Holistic Psychology”: a way to treat yourself by harnessing the mind-body-soul connection. And there are four tenets. To paraphrase: (1) Healing is inward. You have to be an active participant. i.e., you have to want to be healed. (2) Choice enables healing. (3) Healing comes from habits that arise out of your choices, and there are tools and techniques you can implement, (4) Healing is your responsibility.
At this point, I have a couple of reservations about this. How does this model stack up against a control group? For one, it would be nice and ethical to eventually figure out if something is a sugar pill or actual medicine.
A part of this book is about the author’s own journey. Her own rock-bottom story and her struggle out of it. The rest of the book seems to be about psychotherapy and biological concepts. Some of the discussions are about consciousness, thoughts, the influence of stress and childhood trauma, and on how conditioning from parent-figures affect subsequent relationships. The last chapters stress the ultimate goals which are about (1) being your own parent, (2) emotional maturity and (3) authentic relationships.
Overall, this feels disjointed, but I can’t quite figure out how or why. On the surface, this feels like therapy wrapped in a self-help package. Maybe that’s it.
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